I think people underestimate the strength of the SR20 engine. How long has this engine been around for? YEARS n YEARS.
You just have the read some of the magazines showing people moding this every engine with some awesome turbos and huge amounts for power and have had their SR20 running like this for months or years, with no troubles. You also read reveiws as stated in this thread about tuners/researchers pushing the SR20 to 500hp or more on stock internals, with quite happy results.
Im my opinion it all comes down to correct fuel/air tuning, and with ur current system it sounds like your on the right track. If your wise about the potential of your car considering your modifications you'll be fine. If you came into this thread asking a question on the lines of 'my engine is stock, no upgraded ecu, tmic, or upgraded fuel pump... will it be fine to run 2.0bar boost forever?' that will be a different question.
Ive ran 17psi [1.2bar] for over a year now on stock internals, but only when I had some sort of tuning [in my case unichip] to handle it. Once I get my new turbo, install the bigger fuel pump, and finish off other little bits, and have my car tuned for that amount of power, then Ill be quite confident in running up to 20psi [1.4bar or so]