For a road car I wouldn't worry about corner weighting. Just set the ride height and you are close enough. I wrote a sticky on it ages ago though I've learnt alot since then.
http://www.gtiroc.com/forums/showthread.php?34637-FAQ-Suspension-Coilover-Ride-Height-Setup-Guide
330 front, 340 rear is as good a place to start
For camber, get one of these:
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/60cm-Digital-...UK_Measuring_Tools_Levels&hash=item4cf5319b9c
set camber to -1.5 to -1.7deg on the front. Rear is non-adjustable unless you've bought some camber bolts or modified your strut housing.
For toe, I made my own toe plates for about £10 and you can use them with the laser level to check your rear toe in reference to the front. I often final check at a mates garage but it's good enough.
Alternatively, give someone else £25 and get them to setup your toe to 0degs all round.
Also, consider doing the castor mod at the same time as it's proven to be worthwhile. Doing it later will mean you have to do the alignment job again.
Then spend the £150 plus petrol money you've saved on an adjustable rear ARB and some extra bracing.